He said to them, “You come apart into a deserted place, and rest awhile.” For there were many coming and going, and they had no leisure so much as to eat.

Mark 6:31 WEB

Doesn’t that sound like our modern world? So much calls for our time and attention. Work, family, church, school, and activities. And then if we add the social media, emails, and all the rest… 

It’s no wonder we often feel soul weary, burdened, and joyless! For like Martha, we miss out on the best things for that those that are merely good. (Or sometimes not even truly good.) And like Martha, we fret in a joyless fume!

Jesus answered her, “Martha, Martha, you are anxious and troubled about many things, but one thing is needed. Mary has chosen the good part, which will not be taken away from her.”

Luke 10:41-42 WEB

Have you like Martha, been missing what’s really important?

  • Do you feel like you don’t know God’s Word as well as you should?
  • Do you feel like you’ve only touched the tip of the iceberg in getting to know him?
  • Do you feel dry and parched on the inside?
  • That too often you fail to heed his gentle call to get with him in a quiet place?

Christ called his disciples to himself, he didn’t send them off alone. For it is only in his presence and learning from him that we find true rest for our souls. Come away WITH ME he’s saying. Like Mary, sit at my feet and learn of me.

Why do we fail to heed the Lord’s call and choose good over best?

1. We think Bible reading and prayer are too hard.

And they are hard. They take discipline, dedication, and determination. But they’re no harder than going to work everyday or cleaning our house. Good and excellent things we choose to do because we want to reap the benefits.

So let’s keep our eyes on the benefits of spending time in prayer and Bible reading. Sure they’re work – but so worth the effort. And the only way to really start growing in our walk.

2. We’re afraid of failing – again.

We’ve tried over and over again to be regular in prayer and Bible reading – only to keep failing. So we give up. We read the daily calendar verse while eating breakfast, and say a quick prayer while driving to work. Both good things to do. But not enough if we really want to grow.

First, remember that you are not alone in your failure. David failed in his walk with God. And so did Moses and Peter. But the Lord didn’t let them give up. And he’s right there with you too – wanting to see you succeed. So keep trying!

3. We lack discipline.

What it often boils down is that there are so many other things we’d rather do with our limited time. And so we choose those often truly good things, thinking to read and pray later. Until little by little time runs out. And we find ourselves with another day gone by with no (or little) prayer or reading.

Isn’t that what Martha was doing? Cooking and cleaning, fussing to make everything just so. She had chosen good things. Preparing a nice meal, caring for her family, and tending to her guests. But she was missing out on the best.

So let’s heed Christ’s call to get away with him.

Make a commitment to spend time with him, and eliminate any distractions that would keep you from it. Let his Word renew your mind and teach you his thoughts. Feed your soul through prayer, getting to really know him. And THEN get up and serve like Martha.

We live among burdened, troubled people longing for rest. And they need us to serve them. But if we serve without first spending time with the Lord, we risk being nervous, fretful, and critical like Martha.

So in this noisy society constantly clamoring for our time and attention, let’s push it all to the side. Will you delay the instant messages, turn off the push notifications, and ignore the likes, shares, and comments for awhile? And answer that one most important call?

The Lord is calling. Let’s pause to get away with him in our quiet place.

You come apart into a deserted place, and rest awhile. For there were many coming and going, and they had no leisure so much as to eat.

Mark 6.31 WEB


IMAGES: 1ST: light beams across path by bertvhul from Pixabay. | 2ND: folded hands on bible by reenablack from Pixabay. | 3RD: doors by quimono from Pixabay. |

6 thoughts on “How We Miss the Best for What is Merely Good

  1. AMEN!! I love this post so much. You could not have written it more beautifully.

    Nothing is more amazing and life changing than quietly sitting in the presence of God, whether soaking music is playing or nothing at all. Just simply being His. There is a refreshing and a stirring that God brings to our hearts and minds, a restoration of life He breathes. It’s nothing shy of miraculous each time we are simply with our Creator.

    Thank you for reminding us all that the noise of this brief life is nothing more than a distraction from what truly matters. Amen. God bless you, dear sis.


  2. Beautiful message. This morning, as I sit at the computer checking emails, etc., I am listening to the birds singing outside. They are perched in trees and singing beautiful melodies.


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